Carta de una Mama Azul…
A quien pueda interesar,
Los padres de niños con TEA (trastorno del Espectro Autista) quizás se sientan identificados con el día en que diagnosticaron con esta condición al ser que más amamos en el universo… la vida nos cambió por completo. Algunos nos desplomamos, nos quebrantamos, fue como si nos cayera un balde de agua casi congelada encima. Salimos de nuestra zona de confort y el mundo de pronto se nos puso de revés.
Después de un largo “duelo” (en mi caso fueron años sin ver la luz la luz al final del túnel), después de enterrar la idea de tener un niño “perfecto”, según el molde pre – establecido, después de secar mares de lagrimas, solo nos quedó orar a Dios, llenarnos de fe, fuerza, valor, dedicación, paciencia y un determinado “manos a la obra”. Empezamos a cambiar el “Porqué?” y es as como todo empezó nuevamente a tener sentido en nuestra vida.
A diferencia de los padres típicos que dan por sentado cada etapa de la vida de sus hijos (cosas tan sencillas como un abrazo, el hablar, el que acepten la mayoría de los alimentos, etc) para los papás de estos maravillosos superhéroes cada una de estas etapas es un verdadero reto que debemos superar… Aunque no todo es malo porque cuando logramos o logran ellos lo que se proponen, por muy pequeño que sea, lo celebramos hasta las lagrimas… claro que con este caso son lágrimas dulces de felicidad, se vuelve todo una gran fiesta…alimento para el alma.
No estaba preparada para este viaje con rumbo desconocido, no sabía nada sobre el tema, me tocó abordar e ir aprendiendo en el camino, sin embargo, el rumbo nos llevó a un destino que resultó siendo mucho más interesante de lo que pensaba… Creía que tenía mucho que enseñar a mis hijos, pero debo confesar que la que terminó aprendiendo fui yo, así es, son innumerables las cosas que he aprendido pero voy a citar solo algunas que el autismo me enseño…
Aprendí a no intentar demasiado traer a esos ángeles a mi mundo, sino más bien entrar yo al de ellos y me lleve una gran sorpresa, el de ellos es un lugar mucho más bello donde no existe la maldad, la mentira, el egoísmo, la vergüenza, el “qué dirán”, donde todos son nobles, transparentes, sin hipocresías, sin máscaras…
Aprendimos a comunicarnos sin palabras, tan solo con miradas, sonrisas, gestos durante 4 anos de vida.
Aprendí a disfrutar el escuchar la letra de una canción cien mil veces porque cuando mis hijos la cantaban podía llegar a conocer su voz.
Aprendí que se puede aprender a escribir y/o dibujar antes que hablar. De pequeña me enseñaron que “el orden de los factores no altera el producto”… nunca imagine que aplicaría en este caso…
Aprendí a vivir en orden en el medio del caos. Nuestro mundo es caóticamente hermoso.
Aprendí a disfrutar como nunca antes de las cosas más simples de la vida.
Aprendí a romper los calendarios porque cada uno es diferente, no existen fechas… cada cosa se hace a su tiempo.
Aprendí que lo que no suma en nuestras vidas nos resta y no damos espacio para eso. El que no está con nosotros en el mismo barco, aunque nos duela, no es bienvenida a nuestro viaje.
Aprendí que mi peor pesadilla se convirtió en una bendición, enseñanza y causa de vida.
Quizás no puedo cambiar la manera como ellos ven el mundo, pero sí como el mundo los ve a ellos.
Como un día no estaré para protegerlos me gustaría aportar con mi granito de arena a esta sociedad, a crear conciencia y que más personas se informen sobre esta condición ya que según los últimos estudios se pronostica que en el 2030 será 1 de cada 3 niños el que la padezca… así es que si no tenemos un hijo especial, quizás en el futuro diagnostiquen a algún hermano, sobrino, primo o nieto y es necesarios estar preparados…
Un día como hoy, 2 de Abril, me siento más optimista que nunca. Los seres que mas amo en el planeta han progresado a pasos agigantados gracias a Dios, la familia que nos ha apoyado y las personas que sin serlo se ha robado nuestro corazón y celebran junto a nosotros cada uno de sus logros.
Está comprobado que los niños con autismo, recibiendo las terapias adecuadas pueden llegar a ser 100% funcionales y encajar en la sociedad.
Hoy celebro la vida de los míos y de todos los superhéroes sin capa que existen en este planeta. Infinitamente agradecida que estén sanos porque ellos tienen una condición de vida, no una enfermedad. Tenemos tanto que aprender de ellos, creanme!, “Diferente, no inferior”. Yo amo a alguien con autismo y tu?.
Dedicada a los tesoros más grandes de mi corazón (Fernando y Rafael).
Ma Denisse.
81 Comentarios
Que demostración de fuerza y fe, de entrega y humildad, de amor y esperanza. M. Denisse te felicito de todo corazón
M.Denisse, desde el fondo de mi corazon te envio mi comprension y mi apoyo. Cada palabra tuya resono en mi alma como un eco! Esas frases tuyas, esos sentimientos expresados tambien son los mios.
Estoy contigo. Un abrazo!
New lords new laws.
Hi, I do think this is a great website. I stumbledupon it ;
) I am going to revisit yet again since i have book marked it.
Money and freedom is the best way to change, may you be rich and continue to help other people.
Hi to every one, it’s actually a fastidious for me to go to see this website, it contains useful
Information.
Thanks very interesting blog!
Have you ever considered about adding a little bit more than just your articles?
I mean, what you say is valuable and all. However imagine if
you added some great pictures or video clips to give your posts
more, «pop»! Your content is excellent but with
images and video clips, this site could definitely be one of the best in its field.
Wonderful blog!
Valorant++ Riot Games’ Valorant, 5v5 karakter tabanlı taktik FPS veya
MOBA tarzı oyun için bir dost uygulaması. Son derece verimli, tutarlı ve
net olacak şekilde inşa edilen bu uygulamanın, güzel oyuncular için mükemmel bir arkadaş
seçimi olacağını umuyoruz. https://www.rhmod.com/valorant-mobile-apk/
Useful information. Fortunate me I discovered your website unintentionally, and I’m surprised why this accident did not happened in advance!
I bookmarked it.
Your style is really unique compared to other folks I’ve read
stuff from. I appreciate you for posting when you have the opportunity,
Guess I will just bookmark this web site. https://trmedya.co/
Hello I am so happy I found your website, I really found you by
mistake, while I was looking on Bing for something else, Anyhow I
am here now and would just like to say thank you for a incredible post and a all round enjoyable blog (I also love the theme/design),
I don’t have time to browse it all at the minute but I have
saved it and also added in your RSS feeds, so when I have time I will be back to read much more, Please do keep up the
awesome jo.
Hi there i am kavin, its my first time to commenting anyplace, when i
read this post i thought i could also create comment due to this good
post.
I am sure this articlle has touched all the internet visitors, its
really really fastidious article on building upp nnew blog.
My page – 토토사이트
Attractive element of content. I simply stumbled upon your web site and
in accession capital to say that I get in fact loved account your weblog posts.
Anyway I’ll be subscribing on your feeds or even I achievement
you access consistently quickly.
Hey there, You have done an excellent job. I’ll definitely digg it and in my opinion recommend to my friends.
I’m sure they’ll be benefited from this website.
Feel free to surf to my web blog: Eggplant Explosion Male Enhancement
Thanks a bunch for sharing this with all folks you really recognize what you’re speaking
approximately! Bookmarked. Kindly also discuss with my web site =).
We will have a link change agreement among us
I went over this site and I believe you have
a lot of fantastic information, saved to favorites (:.
My webpage … EcoCel Fuel Saver
Thanks for finally writing about > APRENDIMOS A COMUNICARNOS SIN PALABRAS – Vidautista < Loved it!
Here is my web site … Crypto Bank App
magnificent points altogether, you just gained a new reader.
What could you recommend in regards to your submit that you just made some days ago?
Any positive?
Hello there! This article could not be written much
better! Looking at this post reminds me of my previous
roommate! He always kept preaching about this.
I’ll forward this post to him. Fairly certain he’s going to have a very good
read. Thanks for sharing!
Here is my blog post; Cinagra Rx Reviews [https://forum.goldies.in/]
I am not sure where you’re getting your information, but good topic.
I needs to spend some time learning more or understanding more.
Thanks for wonderful information I was looking for this information for my mission.
Feel free to visit my web blog; EcoCel Gas Saver
What’s up, all is going well here and ofcourse every
one is sharing data, that’s actually excellent, keep up writing.
Visit my web blog Muama Enence Translator Review
You actually make it sdem so easy along with your presentation however I to find this tokpic to be actually something which I think I’d by no means understand.
It kind of feels too complicated and very vast for me. I am looking fforward
in your next puut up, I will try to get the hold of it!
Here is my wweb site: 메이저사이트
Fabulous, what a website it is! This blog presents helpful data to us, keep it up.
Here is my blog Keto Boom
Pick the ‘+ View Payouts’ button to view a complete breakdown of
the prizes won in each and every draw.
Do you mind if I quote a couple of your posts as long as I provide
credit and sources back to your website? My blog site is in the exact same niche as yours and my visitors would certainly benefit from a lot of the information you provide here.
Please let me know if this ok with you. Thanks a lot!
Hi, i read your blog occasionally and i own a similar one and
i was just wondering if you get a lot of spam remarks?
If so how do you prevent it, any plugin or anything
you can advise? I get so much lately it’s driving me crazy so any support
is very much appreciated.
Feel free to surf to my webpage – Essential Skin Cream (http://accentuatewriters.com/)
I’ve been surfing online greater than 3 hours as of late, but
I by no means discovered any attention-grabbing article like yours.
It’s pretty value sufficient for me. In my opinion, if all website owners and bloggers made just right content material as you probably did,
the web shall be much more helpful than ever before.
You’re so interesting! I do not suppose I have read anything
like that before. So great to find someone with original
thoughts on this subject matter. Seriously..
thank you for starting this up. This site is something that is needed on the web, someone with a little originality!
Wow! This blog looks just like my old one! It’s on a completely different topic
but it has pretty much the same layout and design.
Great choice of colors!
Take a look at my web-site – download game ace333 (Sunny)
Wow, wonderful weblog format! How long have
you ever been running a blog for? you made blogging look easy.
The full look of your site is great, let alone the content!
my web site; Love138 Test [Xe88Sg.Com]
Thanks for your marvelous posting! I certainly enjoyed reading it,
you might be a great author.I will be sure to bookmark your blog and may come back
later on. I want to encourage that you continue your great
job, have a nice morning!
My blog – U Slim X Keto Reviews
Good write-up, I’m regular visitor of one’s site, maintain up the excellent operate, and It’s going to be a regular visitor
for a long time.
Review my web site – Mega Arise Review
Spot on with this write-up, I really believe this site needs much more attention. I?ll probably be back again to read more, thanks for
the advice!
my blog … Cinagra Rx
WOW just what I was searching for. Came here by searching for cara
id test rollex11
my page … download rollex11
I always was concerned in this topic and still am, thanks for posting.
My site; Dermicell Skin Tag Remover
Just want to say your article is as astounding. The clearness for your put up is simply spectacular and
that i can suppose you are an expert on this subject. Fine with
your permission let me to take hold of your RSS
feed to keep up to date with forthcoming post.
Thanks 1,000,000 and please keep up the rewarding work.
My website: gema 918kaya
I always emailed this weblog post page to all my contacts,
for the reason that if like to read it next my contacts will too.
My web site – ntc33 download android
Wow that was strange. I just wrote an extremely long comment but after I clicked
submit my comment didn’t appear. Grrrr… well I’m not writing all that over again. Anyhow, just wanted to say great blog!
Take a look at my web page … love138 android download
Authorities aren’t entirely sure why “those who can least afford it play the most,” as German sociologists asked in a 2013 paper.
I enjoy what you guys tend to be up too. This
sort of clever work and coverage! Keep up the great works guys I’ve
incorporated you guys to our blogroll.
my blog post :: slot game wukong333
I am in fact thankful to the owner of this web page who has shared this enormous paragraph at here.
Also visit my site; game 3win8 online
Great article! We will be linking to this great content on our site.
Keep up the great writing.
Also visit my website; Sky777 [xe88-my.Com]
Hey there! I could have sworn I’ve been to this site before but after
reading through some of the post I realized it’s new
to me. Nonetheless, I’m definitely delighted I found it and I’ll be bookmarking
and checking back frequently!
Also visit my web page: download playboy2 original
Hi there, just became alert to your blog through Google, and found that it is truly informative.
I am going to watch out for brussels. I’ll appreciate
if you continue this in future. Many people
will be benefited from your writing. Cheers!
Feel free to visit my blog post … Fast Action Keto Ingredients
Thanks so much for giving my family an update on this subject matter on your site.
Please understand that if a brand-new post appears or if perhaps any modifications
occur with the current submission, I would be considering reading a lot more
and knowing how to make good utilization of those strategies you talk about.
Thanks for your efforts and consideration of
other folks by making this website available.
Here is my web page – ACV Advanced (http://www.saraykapi.com)
Some truly select content on this website, saved to my bookmarks.
Feel free to visit my web site Divine Dynamic Keto Review
Please let me know if you’re looking for a article
author for your weblog. You have some really
great posts and I believe I would be a good asset.
If you ever want to take some of the load off, I’d absolutely love to write some material for your
blog in exchange for a link back to mine. Please blast me an email
if interested. Regards!
If some one wants expert view on the topic of blogging and site-building afterward
i suggest him/her to go to see this webpage, Keep up the pleasant work.
my website :: Arctic Air Chill Box Portable AC, Aurelio,
JEFFERSON CITY, Mo. – 3 lawmakers have proposed
bills in an work to legalize sports betting in Missouri.
I’m gone to inform my little brother, that he should also pay a quick visit this weblog on regular basis to get updated from newest information.
Feel free to surf to my web-site – Zenzi CBD Reviews (http://www.wizardhardware.com/member.php?u=840-LauriWozni)
I was curious if you ever thought of changing the layout of your site?
Its very well written; I love what youve got to say.
But maybe you could a little more in the way
of content so people could connect with it better. Youve got an awful lot of text for
only having one or 2 images. Maybe you could space it
out better?
Wonderful goods from you, man. I have understand your stuff previous to
and you are just extremely fantastic. I really like what you’ve acquired here, certainly like
what you are saying and the way in which you say it.
You make it enjoyable and you still take care of to keep it smart.
I can not wait to read far more from you. This is actually a tremendous site.
Here is my web blog: Bionic Ultrasonic Pest Repeller Cost (forum.adm-tolka.ru)
With exactly what went via your head: Uhh.
Some really fantastic info, Gladiolus I discovered this.
Feel free to visit my blog – Performinax Male Enhancement
This is very interesting, You’re a very skilled blogger. I’ve joined your rss feed
and look forward to seeking more of your magnificent
post. Also, I’ve shared your website in my social
networks!
Thank you, I’ve just been searching for information about this subject for
a long time and yours is the greatest I’ve discovered so far.
However, what about the conclusion? Are you positive about the source?
Feel free to surf to my web-site :: Living Tree CBD Gummies Price (http://www.fles.hlc.edu.tw)
I am extremely inspired along with your writing talents and also
with the structure on your weblog. Is that this a paid subject
matter or did you customize it your self?
Either way keep up the nice quality writing, it is rare to look a
great blog like this one nowadays..
There iss perceptibly a bunch to identify about this.
I assume you maqde somme nice points in features also.
That is a good tip especially to those new to the blogosphere.
Short but very accurate information… Appreciate your sharing this one.
A must read article!
Hello there, You’ve done a great job. I’ll definitely
digg it and personally recommend to my friends.
I am confident they’ll be benefited from this site.
my web page: whatsapp gb (Rachel)
Excellent post. I was checking constantly this blog and I am
impressed! Extremely useful info particularly the last part 🙂 I care
for such information a lot. I was looking for this particular info for a very long time.
Thank you and good luck.
Hi there! This blog post couldn’t be written much better!
Reading through this post reminds me of my previous roommate!
He continually kept preaching about this. I most certainly will forward this information to him.
Pretty sure he’s going to have a great read. Thank you for sharing!
Hi outstanding website! Does running a blog like this take a massive amount work?
I’ve no knowledge of computer programming however I had been hoping
to start my own blog in the near future. Anyway, if you have any recommendations
or techniques for new blog owners please share.
I know this is off topic but I simply had to ask.
Thanks a lot!
Here is my webpage :: SEO TEAM – Keto Boom BHB (http://forum.adm-tolka.ru)
I’m not sure where you’re getting your info,
but good topic. I needs to spend some time learning more or understanding
more. Thanks for magnificent information I was looking for this info for my mission.
Also visit my web-site :: Spark Aura Review
I have read so many content on the topic of the blogger lovers except this piece of writing
is in fact a nice article, keep it up.
My website Fast Action Keto Review
Dead indited subject material, regards for entropy.
Also visit my blog post :: CoolEdge AC Review (http://www.meteoritegarden.com)
stromectol pill for humans
But a smiling visitor here to share the love (:, btw outstanding design and
style.
Feel free to visit my site: Muama Translator
Great beat ! I would like to apprentice while you amend
your website, how could i subscribe for a blog web site?
The account helped me a acceptable deal. I had been a little bit acquainted of this your broadcast offered bright clear concept
my site: Niagara XL
I believe other website proprietors should take this website as an example, very clean and excellent user
friendly design Mack And Sons CBD style.
Excellent blog you’ve got here.. It’s difficult
to find excellent writing like yours nowadays. I truly appreciate people like you!
Take care!!
Here is my website – CoolEdge AC Review
sildenafil 110 mg
Good web site you’ve got here.. It’s difficult to find high quality writing like yours these days.
I honestly appreciate individuals like you! Take care!!
Thank you, I’ve recently been looking for information about this subject
for ages and yours is the best I’ve found out so far. However, what in regards to
the conclusion? Are you sure in regards to the supply?
generic viagra 100mg pills
cost of viagra 50mg
1 viagra
generic viagra 100mg for sale
stromectol prices
I’ve been browsing on-line greater than three hours these days,
yet I never discovered any fascinating article like yours.
It’s beautiful value enough for me. Personally, if all site owners and
bloggers made just right content as you did, the web will likely be much more helpful
than ever before.